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Rosaleen:
Hello Cairo
 :hearts:
You asked is it strange writing to people you don't know, but the sad truth is we do know each other because we are ALL  going through similar situations. We can be and we are totally honest about what's happening to us on this grief journey. We can cry vent and unload at any time.

Dave Administrator:

--- Quote from: Rosaleen on March 19, 2016, 10:48:12 AM ---Hello Cairo
 :hearts:
You asked is it strange writing to people you don't know, but the sad truth is we do know each other because we are ALL  going through similar situations. We can be and we are totally honest about what's happening to us on this grief journey. We can cry vent and unload at any time.

--- End quote ---

How many times I have heard this Rosaleen and so true how easy it is to pour your heart out to a stranger, knowing they understand and your not trying to spare their feelings like you would probably do to someone who also loved and is hurting for your lost loved one.

Cairo:
Yes that makes sense. I don't want to make it harder for those around me.

My poor dog is very sick. She has an enlarged heart and the vet is worried about her lungs as well. He gave me some medicine and I have to speak to him again on Tuesday but I think I have to brace myself for losing her as well. She is almost 11 and has had an underlying illness for several years so I'm pleased she has been with me so long.

I'm just praying she doesn't suffer. I don't think I could bear that at the moment.

Emz2014:
 :hearts: sending a hug for you and your dog.  What's his or her name? I have a lurcher called Raz, but in the past had a Springer spaniel, alsatian and a 'heinz' (all at the same time) xx

Karena:
Hi Cairo.
I also have an elderly dog.he is a staffie lab cross.he was very much my husbands dog so when he died we shared the grief,he would go to the door and howl and I just wanted to go howl with him.we also had to re establish the pack order,in truth he is in charge just likes to let me think I am.I also dread the day I lose him,I travel and leave him at home where he is really well looked after by a friend who moves in with him,but every time I leave I dread it might be the last time.my consolation will be perhaps he will be re united with my husband.
It is five years since I lost my husband,,I still miss him every day but in reply to your question,only the people here know just how much and how much I am still affected by his loss.

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