Hi.A few months is early days really and I think one of the things that make us think we arnt coping is an expectation that we will feel better much sooner than we do,and also others around us also have that expectation.No one can really understand how we feel if they havnt experienced it.Keep talking too us and we will try to support you, as long as you need all of us are at some stage of the grief journey, we arnt professional councellors,but have been in your shoes.