:hug:people generally mean well when they say things like that -they just dont get it, - but also something like you will have your memories are the kind of thing often said that could have been said in a better way.- if only they could extend that too you will one day be able to focus on happy memorys but of course it will never make up for them not being here - which is i think what they actually mean,but just dont finish the sentiment.
But they are trying clumsy as it is -better than the people who suddenly find a reason to dash off across the road when they see you coming towards them.
But also we can over react to things ,and i,m not suggesting you are in ths case, -but to give you an example in a charity shop i overheard two ladies -"where,s ron today" ive sent him to x shop cant stand him hanging around sighing when i,m shopping" " i know ive left mine at home he,s a fliipin nuisance"
-me -I left the shop in tears but also angry (Thank goodness i did leave without saying something) but my thoughts were how dare they - dont they realise how lucky they are, or how i would love to have mine sighing while i shop or getting under my feet. But with retrospect i can see how i might have said something similar to them when he was alive, and they had no way of knowing anything about me -so my tears were normal -as it drove even deeper the knife of being alone and missing him so much - but anger in my case was unjustified.