The fb group is livelier but sometimes its good to slow down,one useful thing about here is you can look back,when the times come when it looks like you're back too the earliest times,that things arnt any better,you can read your old posts and see that they are whereas on fb things disappear and its difficult to track.Also because there are fewer of us posting at the same time you get to know each other a bit better.Nothing wrong with being in both places I am,but I do find fb is too fast moving for me.