That makes sense Badger, and I think that on this journey now and again we may need to retreat, ensure some TLC - spend a day indulgently watching dvds under the duvet on the sofa, treating ourselves to tasty food, recharging our batteries (that was my version of recharging which I needed sometimes) - as long as we're moving slowly forward on our journey having some time to retreat and rest now and again is needed/good for us xx