I can already see how supportive you all are so thanks Norma. Hi Emz2014. Glad that work had some benefits for you. And it must have helped with how understanding your boss has been. I work on a team with my manager and he has shown real kindness, a girl who is nice enough however she really applied pressure on me to complete so many tasks that in the end my head was in so much pain I got home and felt so sick I had to lay down until the paracetamol had worked that I took. When I told her she hardly acknowledged me and applied the same pressure again. Sadly the other girl I work with lost her Dad just days after my Dad however she said she feels ok and can't understand why she feels ok, she jokes around with everyone and gets on with her work as usual. Of course I know this will one day catch up with her but she is much younger and said where her Dad lived abroad she didn't see him all the time. So I feel like the same is expected from me.