:hug:you Nan sounds lovely Lisa i hope when its my turn my grandchildren also have good memorys of me like you have of her.
Its not what you need especially at difficult times like this but all famillys i think, have these ongoing conflicts and issues -mine certainly does,
but i decided i,d had enough and when there was a fall out last time round i just said youre grown ups -sort it out yourselves or dont sort it out at all, - but i,m not getting involved -I,m out.
They didnt sort it, but they know better than to try and involve me any more.