Hi Mike, I see you have another thread running and I'll reply to you there
ML100, I'm sorry, I've diverted your post, but as far as your question about how people cope goes, I wonder this myself all the time. I think that one way or another, we just do. The thing that helps me through difficult times is telling myself that I've got to keep going for my family. It would have been easy in the past for me just to give up on myself but I simply couldn't do that for the sake of those that I love, I have to keep going for them.