He's in the rifles.
Not having answers means I have so many questions, and I keep thinking of different scenarios some being that he is missing and we need to find him. I need to blame something, and I need someone to take responsibility for it. And not having that yet is so difficult.
It took me so long to fully accept his job and everything that came with it, as in the last year we got to a place where him going away wasn't an issue, I knew how to deal with it and the time eventually flew by. So I didn't have any second thoughts when he left this time. We always thought we didn't want kids and we decided we did, I always said I would never move away from my home town, but recently we decided it would be best for both our career paths. Why now, now that we were completely happy and settled and had a plan, we talked about wedding themes and baby names. And it's all gone. Texting one day, and not the next.
His friends told me he was thinking of leaving the army. I'd always secretly hoped he would (except not so secretly!) and now he finally thinking about it this happens? I was going to get the life I'd always wanted with him. I am so angry at the army, the mod, everyone who was there, all his friends. I just want to go to barracks and find someone to shout at, and ask why.