Hi Mike, I can understand how you are feeling. A wile into my grief journey I got so lonely I thought I would go mad, but at the same time I hated anyone coming here. If I saw anyone approaching the house I would want to scream at them to go away. It's just grief, it mixes everything up and makes you unsure of everything. You are allowed to have down days but I hope they soon ease up a little and you get some better days. They will come, it just takes time. You won;t stop the missing cos that never goes away but you will find a path for yourself that you can cope with x