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Offline mrs40something

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« on: May 13, 2016, 03:01:29 PM »
Good afternoon,
Just introducing myself. I lost my Mum on the 4th March after a 6 month battle with heart and kidney failure.
The hardest thing I have ever had to endure is this grief that has changed me and my life forever. My poor Dad has lost his soul mate of over 50 years and I feel I am grieving for him also.
My Mum was just 10 days short of her 70th and 2 days away from Mother's Day. Instead of celebrating her Birthday we were organising her funeral.
I have so many issues to try and get over, but just can't comprehend she won't be here this year for so many milestones. I just want to her still be here to share in our family memories.
I don't think I can ever go through this grief again, but already fear how on earth I would cope without my Dad too.
Thoughts with all who are grieving.
Victoria.
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Offline Joann

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« Reply #1 on: May 13, 2016, 04:54:28 PM »
Welcome mrs40something, so sorry for your loss that brings you here.
I also lost my Mum to Heart failure 7 months ago the day before her birthday so I know excatly how you feel.
Please feel free to share as this forum is full of caring and supportive people. Sending you lots of  :hug:
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Taking it one day at a time.

Offline Emz2014

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« Reply #2 on: May 13, 2016, 07:12:00 PM »
Sending a welcome hug  :hug: xx
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Even the darkest night will end and the sun will rise. 
Hold on in there xx

Offline Hubby

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Re: Hello
« Reply #3 on: May 13, 2016, 07:54:26 PM »
Hi mrs40something. Welcome to the forum.

I am very sorry to hear of your families loss. Wishing you the strength to cope at  these difficult times.

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Offline longedge

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« Reply #4 on: May 13, 2016, 10:18:42 PM »
Hello Victoria. My condolences to you. I'm in the same position as your father having lost Chris after 48yrs of being married. I have two 40something daughters  :smiley: . They have been a great support to me over the last few months and I can tell that you'll be the same for your dad. The pain will ease over the next few months although you might not think so at the moment.
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I'll never get over losing her and I used to think that eventually
I would learn to live with it - that's not happened yet.

        ~ I'm George by the way ~
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