It is hard for others to understand when they haven't been through a loss themselves. No matter how much they try they cannot imagine what it feels like. often they don't mean to abandon us, they just don't understand.
I think sometimes it's hard for them to know what to do too. Especially on some days we don't know what we need either. I know there were days when I seemed so changeable. One minute I would want company and a hug, but the next I wanted to be somewhere alone
People understand here, which really helps work through our thoughts and emotions xx