Grief can make us do some extraordinary things that if we werent going through grief we would call ourselves mad, like if i have a really bad day ill ask my hubbys photo okay what have i done to deserve today, someone once told me because i had said i was desperate for a sign, that i probably had but didn't recognition it as a sign, and when i did eventually recognise the sign to say hello to my hubby, he would keep letting me know hes there then, well that sign for me is a strong smell of garlick lol when he cooked he always used garlick i dont, so there's no other explanation, so yes i do say hello, had a bit of bad news last night guess what house smelling of garlick. what you say longedge that we all share the same emotions and thoughts, yes we do, even though our losses are different and we are all at different stages, but eventually we do learn to live with our loss and build a new kind of normalty into our lives xxx
Hugs and a cuppa all round i think
