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Offline Gazby

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I lost my world
« on: March 31, 2016, 07:18:35 AM »
Hello my name is Graham and I lost my world, spent many years caring for my partner due to illness and had a very full life with caring, family life and work. I lost her 2 weeks ago and now feel empty, lost and alone.

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Re: I lost my world
« Reply #1 on: March 31, 2016, 08:00:53 AM »
Welcome Graham, im so sorry you have had the need to find us, but i know you will find the support you need xx

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Its been a rough week but i made it. How about you 💐

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Re: I lost my world
« Reply #2 on: March 31, 2016, 08:06:35 AM »
Sending a welcome hug  :hug: xx
Even the darkest night will end and the sun will rise. 
Hold on in there xx

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Re: I lost my world
« Reply #3 on: March 31, 2016, 01:30:03 PM »
It's a terrible time for you Graham. I am so sorry for your loss. Everyone here understands the pain you are in so post your concerns and feelings and they will support you. Xxx
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Re: I lost my world
« Reply #4 on: March 31, 2016, 04:58:44 PM »
Hi Graham, welcome to the forum. You'll get wonderful support here.  :candle:

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Re: I lost my world
« Reply #5 on: March 31, 2016, 06:10:46 PM »
Keep posting and tell us all about her Graham, we are all here for you.
Take care and please keep posting however small or large you can manage, we need them.

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Re: I lost my world
« Reply #6 on: March 31, 2016, 08:35:42 PM »
Hi Graham sending you a warm welcome.I found this site after losing my husband within months of becoming an empty nester
I do understand what you mean when you say you lost your world I felt like I had no purpose in life having been in a caring role for most of my adult life and having no one left to care for..Over time you can start to build around the crater your world fell into  the hole is always there but the crater starts to fill a bit and the sides green up and cover the black you see now.

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Re: I lost my world
« Reply #7 on: March 31, 2016, 09:09:36 PM »
 :hug:
Taking it one day at a time.

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Re: I lost my world
« Reply #8 on: March 31, 2016, 09:54:57 PM »
Welcome Graham, so sorry for your loss xx
If you need to shout, scream, yell at the world we are here for you and never think you are on your own, We know
what you are going through x
I get up, go to work and survive another day .