Recently my best friend has lost her husband in a motorbike accident in July. She is really struggling to deal with this. I’m struggling because of that. I have only been up to see her just before Christmas to see her and she doesn’t look well. I want her to see a councillor but don’t want to force this on her. I have been bottling things in since the accident and recently I have been emotional and have lashed out at a couple of people. I have been struggling sleeping and keep waking up thinking about her and what to do. I’m not sure if this is a normal reaction or not. I have txt her today seeing if she will talk but isn’t feeling to good. Really need some advice on how I go about this and if anybody thinks I’m pressuring her. She basically took me under her wing at work and we have become reallly good friends and this is really hard for me