Hello to both of you and I am so sorry to hear of your losses. I can assure you the feelings you are experiencing are perfectly normal. I've been through the exact same feelings. I lost my mum a little over a year ago and I couldn't help but feel that there was no more purpose left to keep going and I often forgot to eat or drink and didn't want to anyway. But you have to remind yourself that you were loved by the person you have lost and that they would not want you to give up. You are the repository for the memories of them that you will always carry with you and by making the best of your own continuing life and remembering them as you go on, is a way of honouring their memory. It is true, it may not seem like it at present, but the memories of your loved ones' passing will become less and the happy memories of their life will increase as time goes by and the pain, though it will always be there, will become less raw. You are both still at very early stages in your grief and it will lessen. You will never get over it, it will become part of you, but so will the memories you treasure of the person you have lost. Try to make yourself eat and rest. I still cannot sleep properly over a year on from losing my mum, and I still have bad days and bad weeks, but I also have better ones. Grief is the hardest thing we ever have to go through, so just be kind to yourself. Perhaps, in a few months time, find some interest you can take up to take you out of yourself, if only for a few hours a week. It may help. It helped me. Until then, try walks in the park and revisiting places you both liked to go. That too helps, because it rekindles good memories and does help ease the pain somewhat. Try to stay strong. Life is still worth living, it's just hard to see that at the moment. Sending hugs...