Did anybody else hear "You and Yours" on Radio 4 today? The topic was "Have you found love after bereavement?". There were parts of the programme that just tore me apart but nevertheless I listened. There were people on there who felt as I do that there can never be anyone else and others who have formed new relationships. All very non-judgemental (quite rightly) and, I felt, reassuring for people worrying whether they are normal or are doing the right thing. It's still available on the BBC radio 4 website for anyone interested.