welcome too the forum,i lost my husband too a stroke 7 years ago and finding this place was a lifeline.Finding the answers seems to take forever and I,m not 100% sure i took them on board or was ever really able to understand some aspects of him also having pneumonia on the certificate.Over time it matters less i think, but i remeber how much it filled my mind back then. but even when we do get them theyre still gone and we are still left trying to come to terms with their loss. Its very early days although it probably doesnt feel like it,be kind to yourself because just getting out of bed and functioning at all is an achievement at this time.
as Emz said dont worry about the technology side of being here, its fairly easy once you get used too it and we can move anything in the wrong place anyway, the main point is to have somewhere to write, somewhere where people are on the same journey but at different stages of it,and a friendly place to escape too when you need it.