Sending you a welcome hug
2 months is no time atall. It's really difficult, especially from being together so long. I know a close older friend of mine really struggled after losing his wife, took him time to come around to going for some therapy which helped him immensely, although I know alot of bereavement counselling tends to wait a few months (from the shock etc I guess)
I dont know of any widowers groups, but some of our members here may know or have suggestions. Would he speak to his Dr?
Its such a hard time trying to support someone whilst grieving yourself
xx