So I will try to give you a shortened version, and not bore you, my Mum died suddenly of a heart attack. I was with her, fought to save her, obviously didn't , anyway I was the youngest of 4 children, the only child of a second relationship, Mum and I were so close, we had lost my Dad 25 years previously... anyway I lost Mum that night, my world utterly crumbled, it really did, theirs not so much, mum's body was taken away at 11 Monday night, at 9 a m my brother and sister were in Mums house clearing her stuff, I had no choice but to go, funeral organised and sorted, her ashes went in with my Dad as she wished, and then they decided to argue about the stone, they did not want hers and Dads name on the same stone, they were not married ( shocking I know) they knew I had no money and thought they could ride rough shodvkver me, but I knew the man who was doing them and he did me a deal so I could have them both together, so they chose to do their own separately, fine except they then all freely admitted they would not go visit it,
Well the thing is, sorry this is so long, is it was Mums birthday Tuesday, I went up there as I had done every week, thought I better clean theirs, it was then I saw they had the wrong date of birth on theirs, okay, stuff like that happens, but what has upset me so much is that when I told them, they said it didn't matter! Just because they don't want to spend any extra money, it feels like the final straw, I miss Mum so much, and I wanted the last thing I could do for her was have a pretty well kept grave, that would have been important to her, and again I am being dictated too...
Anyway sorry, each day I come on here, hoping that I could offer words of advice, but sadly all I do is seem to moan...