Last Updated 2nd March 2015

Established since June 2000 


This site is here to support you no matter where in the world you come from.

Bereavement is indeed one of the most painful emotions the human body has to deal with during our lifetime. 

So this site was created to be a lifeline to help you, especially after the initial support drops off. The phone rings less and less, and people call to see us less frequently. Daily life and living takes over and we now feel totally lost and very alone.

This is where Bereavementuk can be of enormous  help and support to you. The pain you may be feeling right now can seem almost unbearable at times but will be fully understood and felt by the people of all ages we have in our Group.  It offers a listening ear, friendly support and advice with comforting words on those lonely days and nights and will be there for you for as long as you need them.

The Bereavementuk Support Forums & Chat, is where people who have lost loved ones, know exactly how you are feeling and will help you through this heartbreaking time and I promise it really will help you heal. You can join up for free straight away and begin getting support from our caring members after introducing yourself to us all. Please donít try and go it alone, join maybe one of the best bereavement forums on the internet.

We are now using a new Facebook Group for up to date information on whats going on in BUK Forums and 123 Flashchat Live Chat rooms. You can log into members room using Facebook login


Please click here to join our support forums


Many have left a beautiful dedication in our  Dreambook

Read My Dreambook
Sign  My Dreambook


Thank you to everyone who has left a dedication in our Dreambook.  But of course you will not get responded to using this book. So we now have a very simple Support Forum that is as easy to use as the Dreambook.Registration is free and instant to start too read, post and receive support from others who are going through the same pain you feel now.  

Please post in there, it really could make all the difference to you and someone else.









Disserth by site owner



One night a man had a dream.  He dreamed he was walking along the beach with the Lord.  Across the sky flashed scenes from his life.  For each scene , he noticed two sets of footprints in the sand: one belonging to him, and the other to the Lord.  When the last scene of his life flashed before him,  he looked back at the footprints in the sand.  He noticed that many times along the path of his life,  that there was only one set of footprints.  He also noticed that it happened at the very lowest and saddest times in his life.  This really bothered him,  and he questioned the Lord about it.  " Lord, you said that once I decided to follow you, you'd walk with me all the way.  But I have noticed that during the most troublesome times of my life, there is only one set of footprints.  I don't understand why,  when I needed you most you would leave me".  The Lord replied "My Son, My precious child. I Love You, and would never leave you. During your times of trial and suffering, when you see only one set of footprints, it was then that I carried you".

Author Unknown

Cornish Sunset by site owner.

Here we have Tributes, Poems, and some beautiful writings that you may like to read.

This may give you comfort and hope sent by Marta 

This was shared for us all by Bob

   A Tribute to My beautiful Sister by Loretta 

A Poem For All

A wish from those left behind

Shirley M (Souza) Reine


Tribute To My Darling Angel Alex

Alex James Ball

This Poem was sent by Jenny and dedicated to

Baby Kai

†††††††† Poems were sent by Vickie, and dedicated to

Ryan Hunter Wilkerson

This Poem was sent by Yvonne O'Brien

The Fifth Season


To read Peters message click here


When somebody dies

Please read this 

If You Have Just Lost A Pet



If you wish to have your loved one's name here just mail me.

To add someone please use this email address  to make your dedication.

Sian Kimberley Evelyn Probert


April 7 1984 - December 9 2014


We miss you so much darling girl, we so hope you are at peace sweetheart.


Until we see each other again, love you always.


Mum Xxxxxxxx

Kerry McBride

        I love and miss you every day.

All my love forever. Blondie.


I love and miss you darling each and every day

I lay awake at night and wonder where are you, are you ok?

Waiting for the day we are united again xxxx

22-4-49 till 2-11-13


15/11/52 to 1/1/14

Loved you to the moon and back

My one love, my soulmate


George McMinnie

6/7/38 30/1/13

Loved and Missed more each day

I will hold your hand in my heart until we meet again.

Your loving wife

Barb x x

Graham Ward

My beloved father, loved dearly by his family.

Will be missed forever and always in our hearts.


Love, Diane, Jamie, Dawn & Amanda.




Martyn Robert Lewis

21.3.56 to 6.1.13

My life

Until we meet again

Love Steph


My Son Nigel

24-7 -67 to 27-7-67

You was in my arms a short while, in my heart for ever. love you always Mum

My Granddaughter Hope

29 3 97

16 hours in our lives, forever in our hearts loving Grandma.

Granddaughter Hannah

18-10-1999 to 17-9-2002

You left an empty place our lives when you left your loving Grandma

My Husband Don

4 -5 -34 to 21 -10-2009

My heart was broken the day we said goodbye from your heartbroken wife Muriel





We are using a free Support Group with Forums & Chat which is very easy to join and no personal details required. You will find great warmth and friendship from people who know and understand every emotion you are suffering.

After friendly introductions, new members found any fears of talking to strangers about their deepest, saddest times, were met with overwhelming support.

This was sent by Maria Kirk to a new member and sums up what our support group is all about. Maria gave me her kind permission to put it here.

Words of support

We will be here to listen to the pain you feel
We will never judge or laugh at what you say
We will always understand that some days your grief is greater than others
We will walk next to you when your needs are such

When you cry we will offer you that shoulder to cry on
When you want to rant, we will rant with you
When your days are dark, we will light the way for you
When you feel you can't take any more, we will carry you until you can

All these things we offer, for no payment
For we have all been supported in the same way, by people on here
Past, present and in the future.

 We also have a picture gallery that we share photos of our loved ones, and many other wonderful images. Please click here to take a look and maybe place your favourite photo's after you have registered.  

Click to join the Bereavementuk Support Forums & Chat

E-mail me for this or any info you require


Below is a link to click on that will take you too our free live Chat, it has Webcam (optional).

Members meet here mainly between 8pm-11pm and chat about most things in general.

Join as a guest inThe Lounge Room and get live support from people who know just how sad and lost you may be feeling. This is because they understand every emotion you are suffering that has bought you here.

Itís worth hanging around because someone always turns up, plus its totally free with no sign up.

Please join us you won't regret it, I promise.

Click the above link, just choose a Nickname and submit.