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Offline Sally M

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Re: A message that may help you very much from one of our members.
« Reply #15 on: March 12, 2020, 10:24:34 AM »
Beautiful words Angela, I'm so sorry for your loss! You see families on tv or read the loss in the papers, but you never think it is going to happen to YOU! But its does and the feeling and pain is undescribeable, I am full of love and admiration for those who have gone through this and come out the other side a strong unit! When my beautiful daughter was found, the pain was unbearable but the feeling of gratefulness that she had been found and we had closure and grieve our loss, out-weighed the pain! We will be eternally grateful to those rescue teams that found her and will do everything possible to help them continue the amazing work they do, but the pain has returned and I am not sure if it is grief or me being selfish as my daughter died doing what she loved most and was so happy.  So why cant I take that happiness she held and make it work for me! We were told by one of the rescurers that, YOU CANNOT GO OVER IT, YOUR CANT GO UNDER IT, YOU CANT GO ROUND IT, YOU JUST HAVE TO GO THROUGH IT! Such wise words.

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Re: A message that may help you very much from one of our members.
« Reply #16 on: June 29, 2020, 02:12:37 PM »
I found this very helpful.  I am still in the early stages of grief. After a time your are expected to move on, you put on the fake smile and try to busy yourself. I pushed a lot of feelings down and distracted myself in work but with the Covid pandemic I was working from home but it was only a few hours.  The grief began to resurface with such a gush that I was over whelmed and I could not face do anything.  I have began to realise that I should disregard what "people" think and deal with my feelings.