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Title: Sister's words of comfort, not....
Post by: Twinkle on January 08, 2018, 02:14:46 PM

This morning I received a message from my sister as I had tried to reach out to her last night, it said, and I quote " it's  time to stop this now. You have family that love and care for you, stop with the self punishment,  Mum wouldn't want this, and I am certain your Dad wouldn't, so shape up"  am I going mad? Is the whole world thinking I am being pathetic that it's taking me so long to deal with it? It  becomes so you dare not mention what you are feeling, I don't want to feel like this, I just want my parents but I can't have that...

Title: Re: Sister's words of comfort, not....
Post by: Karena on January 08, 2018, 03:56:56 PM

 :hug:your grief is your own -nobody has the exact same relationship with a person as anyone else.You cant help the way you feel and how you deal with it. Keep talking too us -no one here will tell you to stop. :hug:

Title: Re: Sister's words of comfort, not....
Post by: Emz2014 on January 08, 2018, 05:33:09 PM

I second what karena said, you have a safe environment here to help support you on your grief journey  :hearts: xx

Title: Re: Sister's words of comfort, not....
Post by: Twinkle on January 08, 2018, 05:53:34 PM

 Thank you much x