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Bereavement Support Posts => Please Post In This Bereavement Support Posting Room => Topic started by: Vee68 on December 06, 2019, 08:30:43 PM
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Hello, i am new to all this. I lost my partner on 27th Nov to cancer, he was only 60 and I am struggling so badly
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Hello Vee, I am sorry you are going though this difficult time after the loss of your partner. You may find it helps sharing your thoughts here with people who truly understand. Jill
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Hello Jill and thank you for your reply. I don't know where to start on writing my thoughts, he has left such a void in my life and feeling the rest of my life is just passing time. I carry on for my 2 daughter's (23 and 20, not my partners). Im 51 and going to be lonely forever x
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Hello Vee, I understand only too well how you are feeling. My husband died in July. I can only pass on to you the advice that has helped me and hope it will help you too. The most important thing is to just take one day at a time. Just concentrate on getting through each day and being kind to yourself. Don't expect too much. My neighbour suggested I put up the happiest photos of myself and my husband around the house and do you know that really helped. It is not easy, I know but I am in your corner. Jill x
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Thank you Jill, I feel you are my shining light to getting through this. I am so sorry for your loss as well and He would be so proud of you for carrying on. Thank you loads xxxx
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Well Vee, we all help each other here as we all understand how very difficult and painful it is; especially in the early days.