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Title: Missing My Wife
Post by: mike59 on May 09, 2016, 03:41:44 AM

Hello All,having a Bad night/Day here.I am Missing my Wife so Badly,Seem to be crying more than ever even though My Children have been so supportive, there are things they cant understand.you and your partner used to discuss between yourselfs. sorry for my Ranting not sleeping also getting more depressed again,

Title: Re: Missing My Wife
Post by: Billy on May 09, 2016, 01:43:01 PM

The worst feelings come tumbling in at night. I was awake the whole night at the weekend and then felt tearful all day, probably because exhausted. I'm finding a regular brief cry brings relief. A long one makes it worse. Chin up.

Title: Re: Missing My Wife
Post by: Norma on May 09, 2016, 05:20:11 PM

Hugs xx

 :hug: :hug:

Title: Re: Missing My Wife
Post by: Soleil on May 09, 2016, 06:51:42 PM

hello mike59 - I think it all comes in waves and when it revisits it can be more powerful than before. It is just part of the healing process and grief. There would be no one to replace your wife but if you have family that you can just spill it out sometimes, that could help.   :hug:

Title: Re: Missing My Wife
Post by: longedge on May 09, 2016, 07:26:12 PM

Hello Mike59 my condolences to you. It's indescribable I find and a kind and understanding family helps but there are times when nothing does. Keep posting and tell us more about yourself.

Title: Re: Missing My Wife
Post by: Emz2014 on May 09, 2016, 08:08:53 PM

Grief is such a rollercoaster, and it does come in waves.  Hold on in there, it will get easier to cope in time.  Right now be gentle with yourself  :hug: xx

Title: Re: Missing My Wife
Post by: Hubby on May 10, 2016, 06:45:27 PM

Hi Mike59. So sorry to hear of your loss.

I recently lost my wife and my children have been incredibly supportive but there are huge gaping holes in the day that only Margaret could fill. When I feel like talking I often call the Samaritans. I find I can talk easier about some things to an anonymous stranger and it helps me get a handle on the myriad of thoughts that are bouncing around in my head.

Wishing you the strength to cope at this most difficult of times.

Title: Re: Missing My Wife
Post by: mike59 on May 10, 2016, 07:09:09 PM

thankyou all for your lovely Replies you dont know how greatful I am, I really feel as if I need to Talk / chat to somone, I have many Issues that need answering. like you Hubby there are times during the day I just cant help myself im so Tearful.

                                                                                                               I Love you all xxxx

Title: Re: Missing My Wife
Post by: Emz2014 on May 10, 2016, 07:44:34 PM

Have you tried the chat room in the evenings?   :hearts: xx