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Offline Soleil

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Re: Oh for a cuddle.....
« Reply #15 on: April 18, 2016, 08:40:06 PM »
Best I can do.  :hug: :)

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Re: Oh for a cuddle.....
« Reply #16 on: April 28, 2016, 10:34:39 PM »
she didn't call me darling, why did I say that
it was always hun or honey sometimes not even that
I still hear her voice and now I've felt her touch
soft across my fingers in the early hours
her cool touch lingers - I know you're there
I'll never get over losing her and I used to think that eventually
I would learn to live with it - that's not happened yet.

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Re: Oh for a cuddle.....
« Reply #17 on: September 22, 2016, 12:50:39 AM »
I don't know why it is but every now and again I just feel the need to blurt out my feelings -------------

If I could stroke your cheek
just softly kiss you, for a moment
would I be gratified or sated
no for I forever hunger for your touch

If I could just enfold you
in my arms, and whisper
how I love you, how I miss you
would I then be peaceful, no not I

If I were able would I go back
to those days so long ago
when I first knew you, oh yes
in an instant, if only it could be so.

--------- if only I could turn the clock back to about 1964 and do it all again!!
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I'll never get over losing her and I used to think that eventually
I would learn to live with it - that's not happened yet.

        ~ I'm George by the way ~

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Re: Oh for a cuddle.....
« Reply #18 on: September 22, 2016, 12:13:32 PM »
Thats a lovely verse,  says it all doesnt it, even the year 1964 xx

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Re: Oh for a cuddle.....
« Reply #19 on: September 22, 2016, 03:28:06 PM »
Hi,
   The words in the verse are spot on,I like you all miss my darling Pat so so much,it's nearly 6 dark lonely heartbroken months since I lost my precious,she was and still is my only love,miss her every single moment.We will be re-united again one day happy and in love once more but this time it will be forever .
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Norma remember what you told me when I joined,take baby steps.xx :hug:

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Re: Oh for a cuddle.....
« Reply #20 on: September 22, 2016, 04:38:13 PM »
Norma remember what you told me when I joined,take baby steps.xx :hug:

Wise words indeed, I'd still love to take a bloody great huge one back in time though  :smiley:
I'll never get over losing her and I used to think that eventually
I would learn to live with it - that's not happened yet.

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Re: Oh for a cuddle.....
« Reply #21 on: September 22, 2016, 04:42:32 PM »


Wise words indeed, I'd still love to take a bloody great huge one back in time though  :smiley:
I would give anything to step back in time

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Re: Oh for a cuddle.....
« Reply #22 on: September 22, 2016, 05:16:44 PM »
I do remember the take baby steps, mine have grown to a normal step now.still dont see much thats happening around  me, daydreaming of where id rather be. 1964 was a good year xx

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Re: Oh for a cuddle.....
« Reply #23 on: September 22, 2016, 06:01:11 PM »
1964 was a good year xx :hug:

For us too. Rather shy and just getting to know one another, awkward at times but full of hope for a bright future which we both new, even then, would be together ....  big sigh!!
I'll never get over losing her and I used to think that eventually
I would learn to live with it - that's not happened yet.

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Re: Oh for a cuddle.....
« Reply #24 on: October 04, 2016, 10:58:13 PM »
I mentioned in another thread that I was listening to a song by Boz Scaggs "Fly Like a Bird". I still am - it ends :-

A calm will descend
And there's peace at the end
Of the darkest night
Sometimes I cry
Sometimes I fly like a bird
I'll never get over losing her and I used to think that eventually
I would learn to live with it - that's not happened yet.

        ~ I'm George by the way ~

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Re: Oh for a cuddle.....
« Reply #25 on: October 04, 2016, 11:50:56 PM »
Wish I could fly like a bird at night. At this stage it's when I do most of my crying.

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Re: Oh for a cuddle.....
« Reply #26 on: October 13, 2016, 12:00:10 AM »
I nearly posted to another thread - but I don't want to 'rain on the parade' as the saying goes. Only a few days to the end of my first 12 months and just a couple of weeks after Chris died, our ShihTzu "Suki" collapsed several times over a couple of days. I took her to the vets and she had to be put to sleep. When I was in the surgery with the vet I think it was the first time in my life that I tried to but couldn't speak. Chris had just left me and now I was saying yes to Suki being put to sleep. It was the first time in my life that I broke down in tears. I still can't believe that until that moment I had held myself together and it was the loss of our dog that broke me.....
I'll never get over losing her and I used to think that eventually
I would learn to live with it - that's not happened yet.

        ~ I'm George by the way ~

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e: Oh for a cuddle.....
« Reply #27 on: October 13, 2016, 07:22:40 AM »
Hi so sad to lose your dog so soon after Chris.THe first year is so hard .I don't know how I would  have managed If I didn't have my wee dog to keep me company, and to give me cuddles, and take for long walks.Now my mum passed last Sunday and its so much worse again as I'm grieving for the both of them my soulmate and my bestfriend.I have such lovely memories of them both.The only comfort I have is they will be looking after each other in  heaven.Take care.

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Re: Oh for a cuddle.....
« Reply #28 on: October 13, 2016, 10:59:42 AM »
Well I had one of my worst crying sessions late last night,  I was just deep in thought about Ann,  I've been trying to mix more socially in recent days, and though it does help, albeit only temporarily,  deep down I think I'm merely kidding myself, those dark thoughts returned really strong last night too...and still with me this morning...not good.

I'm trying, I really am, but the reality is I'm struggling to see any future,  there is nothing any more.  I feel really depressed today and I know what my wife would be saying now "Come on you Wimp"

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Re: Oh for a cuddle.....
« Reply #29 on: October 13, 2016, 02:18:27 PM »
Hi Brian Its hard socially.Its all couples I was like you I struggle to.I always declined and made excuses not to go.Ive got a bit better recently.But It takes time.I to was very depressed after my lovely husband died,I couldn't see a future either.But I don't know when really but it just changed one day.I think going out walks with my wee dog helped me.You always meet people.It stops you shutting yourself away.I did that to.My husband was my life to.I met him when I was 17 and we were together 30 yrs,Then he died suddenly when he was 51.All our plans went out the window,Its so hard but You will have good days and bad days.Anne would want you to carry on for her.As I said she will be by your side but you cant see her.A favourite saying of mine is Love is like the wind.You cant see it but you can feel it.Hold on to your happy memories.Hope you have a better day soon.Take care. :hug:

 

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