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Bereavement Support Posts => Introduce Yourself To Us All => Topic started by: painterman on September 09, 2017, 09:44:29 PM

Title: newly alone
Post by: painterman on September 09, 2017, 09:44:29 PM

Hi Iam david and yesterday I lost my beautiful wife

Title: Re: newly alone
Post by: Emz2014 on September 10, 2017, 12:07:42 AM

Sending a welcome hug  :hug: you will find a supportive group here xx

Title: Re: newly alone
Post by: Mandic on September 15, 2017, 07:36:17 PM

I am so sorry. I lost my husband suddenly 10 weeks ago. We will just have to get through this one day at a time, accept love and support from others, and know that in time it will be easier to manage.
Know that they didn't want to leave us, it was just their time, and we can still be assured of their love, that will always endure..and we will find a way to look back with laughter and fond memories - to move forward and make them proud. Xx

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Post by: TinaT on September 15, 2017, 08:48:15 PM

So sorry for your loss David. There's a really supportive group here. They have helped me get through some dark days and nights and I'm really grateful for that support. Sending hugs.

Title: Re: newly alone
Post by: painterman on September 15, 2017, 09:06:01 PM

Thank you all for the welcome and the kind words.I thought I was coping quite well until yesterday when I fell apart.Its good to know that there are people who will take time away from their own grief to help newcomers to the board.I'm not feeling as alone as I was.Thanks to you all.David

Title: Re: newly alone
Post by: longedge on September 16, 2017, 11:17:14 AM

My condolences David. I hope thaty you find some comfort in coming here and 'talking' in the same way that I did in my very early days.

Title: Re: newly alone
Post by: painterman on September 16, 2017, 11:34:43 AM

Thanks for that George. second time around for me so I know what to expect.Does not make it any easier though.David

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Post by: LossedBoy2017 on September 16, 2017, 12:06:39 PM

So sorry for your loss.

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Post by: quietstorm on September 16, 2017, 01:43:59 PM

Hello David I'm so sorry for the loss of your beautiful wife it's just heartbreaking. I lost my husband very suddenly in March this year.
 :hug:

Title: Re: newly alone
Post by: painterman on September 16, 2017, 05:55:07 PM

Lossed boy Thanks for the kind words.Just hang on anyway you can and it will get easier.David

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Post by: painterman on September 16, 2017, 06:01:12 PM

Thank you Quietstorm.  Love that stormy picture.David

Title: Re: newly alone
Post by: quietstorm on September 16, 2017, 11:12:54 PM

Thank you David   :azn: I love storms and all of nature.
I am sorry I just read this is your second time of such a terrible loss. I am thinking of you  :cry: