Lost my mum and I'm pregnant

[AnnaJo]

We were told 3 weeks ago my mum wouldn't be fit for any treatment for her cancer that had returned for the third time in three years. Lost her after a horrific few weeks she really suffered from alot of pain and weakness. The last 2 days she could hardly breathe it was so difficult to watch I was actually wishing her to die just so the torture would stop.

She was in a hospice they done their best to keep her pain under control and manage symptoms but there's only so much they can do.
Anyway I'm 6 months pregnant with two other children I am so devastated and just looking for a place to get some support or speak to someone who has been in this position.  I'm 30 and my mother was only 58 I feel as if I have so many regrets and her life was actually so short. 

[Emz2014]

Sending a big welcome hug    I lost my dad shortly after his 59th birthday, it's hard

You will find a supportive group of people here who understand.  Talking about the feelings and emotions helps xx

[Hubby]

Hi Annajo. Welcome to the forum.

I'm so sorry to hear of your loss. My wife was 57 when she died and it has left my family devastated. I was expecting decades of time with her but it wasn't to be. We just don't expect to lose people at that age.

 

[mike59]

Hello Annajo, sorry you had to find us I Lost my Wife in Febuary 59 years,married for 38 wonderful years. you will Hopefully get Lots of Support Here.