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Bereavement Support Posts => Introduce Yourself To Us All => Topic started by: Kim1323 on March 29, 2016, 11:41:29 AM

Title: Hi
Post by: Kim1323 on March 29, 2016, 11:41:29 AM

Hi my name is Kim I'm 29 and my husband Mike 31 died very suddenly on 13th March. We have a beautiful baby boy called Jack who is only 16 weeks old.

Mike died of a haemorrhage into a brain stem tumour that we knew nothing about. He had no signs or symptoms that he had something so bad happening inside.

We were married 3 1/2 years and together for just over 8.

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Post by: pennyking on March 29, 2016, 02:16:01 PM

Hi Kim and welcome to our group.   So sorry for your loss.  There are no words that I can say that will ease your pain.   We are here to listen when you need to talk, no matter what you want to say.  We understand your pain and have been through it.  Sending hugs.  Penny x

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Post by: Cairo on March 29, 2016, 02:19:59 PM

Hi Kim. Welcome to the group and I'm so sorry for your loss at such a young age. It must be very difficult with your little one. Do you have family support? Big hugs xxx

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Post by: Hubby on March 29, 2016, 02:25:48 PM

Hi Kim. So sorry to hear of your sudden loss. My thoughts are with you.

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Post by: Kim1323 on March 29, 2016, 02:41:37 PM

I am currently staying at my mum and dads house. I'm considering moving back so that I'm not alone.

I'm off to see Mike later today. I've battled long and hard with the thought and I think I will regret it more if I don't see him.

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Post by: Norma on March 29, 2016, 06:18:15 PM

A warm welcome to you Kim, my heart goes out to you hun, let your heart tell you what to do about goung to see your hubby,  it has to be your decision. It may help you to keep a memory box for your little boy to help him remember his daddy, theres nothing anyone can say to make your pain go away, but please keep talking to us, xxx

 :hug:

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Post by: Kim1323 on March 29, 2016, 06:59:31 PM

I went to see him, he looked so peaceful, just like he was asleep. I can't believe I'm never going to see him again but I glad I got to see him one last time.

I plan on doing a box for Jack, just don't know what to put into it.

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Post by: Emz2014 on March 29, 2016, 07:03:15 PM

Sending a welcome hug  :hug: xx

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Post by: Soleil on March 31, 2016, 05:19:50 PM

So sorry Kim to lose a husband but your baby a father. We can never make sense of some things.  :hug:

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Post by: Jude M on March 31, 2016, 10:13:53 PM

Welcome Kim and so sorry for your loss.
We are here to listen to you and  know what you are going through, Just be gentle on yourself and take one day at a time.
Wish I could advise on a memory box, I never had to do one but perhaps Google and see what comes up on it.
I would do links for you but there is a rule of no links allowed.
Take care and sending hugs to you both xx

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Post by: Cleo on April 02, 2016, 08:08:14 AM

Hi Kim.  Hope this forum provides some comfort as it has to me so far.  Don't make hast decisions in your grief, takevtime to decide how to move forward.  Do what you feel is best for you.

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Post by: Joann on April 02, 2016, 09:53:14 AM

 :hug: :hug: So so sorry for your loss. A massive welcome.