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Bereavement Support Posts => Introduce Yourself To Us All => Topic started by: Maria on March 07, 2018, 03:53:38 PM

Title: New here - loss of parents
Post by: Maria on March 07, 2018, 03:53:38 PM

Hi all, just wanted to introduce myself. I lost both my parents nine months apart. Dad died without warning last March, then lost mum at Christmas. I'm a confused mess of grief...not sure which one I'm crying for sometimes, or both, or just the whole pile of loss. Thanks for reading...

Title: Re: New here - loss of parents
Post by: Norma on March 07, 2018, 05:33:55 PM

Sending a welcome hug Maria xx

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Title: Re: New here - loss of parents
Post by: Emz2014 on March 07, 2018, 06:14:35 PM

Sending a welcome hug  :hug:
This rollercoaster journey can be really confusing. Hope talking with us here helps xx

Title: Re: New here - loss of parents
Post by: Karena on March 08, 2018, 12:34:32 PM

 :hug:Hi -losing one parent -no matter how old you are is bad enough losing both and so close together is a huge shock -not suprising you are feeling lost and confused.I found just writing things here helped clear that kind of brain fog over time -as in writing you have to have some kind strcuture -so in creating that your thoughts also gain that structure -it doesnt take away your grief just helps you to understand it better.