Hello

[Maisie]

Feeling so helpless. Lost my best friend of 60 years (54 married) on 2 December. He suffered an aorta aneurysm.  Not coping......

[Sandra61]

I'm so sorry. Maisie. Sending you a welcome hug.  All you can do at present is try to take care of yourself. Remember to drink enough and try to eat something each day. The shock and pain will not subside easily as we, who have found our way to this website, know only too well. Practical priorities are of course important and if you can get those sorted out so that you have enough money and the bills can be paid, that will do for now. Everything else can wait for the moment. I hope you have someone who can help you, but if not, I am sure you will be able to get some useful advice from our lovely members here,  who have all been through similar times too sadly and know what you will be going through. Try to take care of yourself and talk to us all about anything you wish. Thinking of you.