Thank you Karen's, I am so sorry that as well as losing your husband you lost everything too, it must have been so hard,, you are right, the daffodils and snowdrops that Mum and Dad loved can be anywhere, and even if I have to move others will come and enjoy the ones I have planted. And like you say the bench and memories will still be there. Thank you
Scared 1 like you the wi e has come out and with a bit of luck soon will not be hurting so much, ....