How do you deal with the feelings of guilt that you missed the signs of illness? My daughter died within 48 hrs of first being sick but the condition that killed her was diagnosed 12 months ago when she was ill previously but the hospital didn't bother discussing with me that it could have been fatal and if not treated would be fatal. We only know about this diagnosis because of a sick note for uni reread after death. So angry at them and with myself for not finding this out. We are in process of getting hospital records to investigate what lily was told about her condition but the guilt of not keeping her safe is breaking my heart