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Offline BT

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Aloneness
« on: December 29, 2016, 10:05:51 PM »
Christmas has made me feel more alone and feelings of despair more pronounced.  I just feel that each month this year i can mark it down as a new discovery on the grief journey and ill probably have more to come.  This year has been an unwanted emotional journey.

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Re: Aloneness
« Reply #1 on: December 29, 2016, 10:12:11 PM »
It's been the same for me BT. I feel like I've been knocked back six months and there is still new year to go. Hopefully this hill will end soon and the journey become a little easier.

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Re: Aloneness
« Reply #2 on: December 29, 2016, 10:22:05 PM »
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Re: Aloneness
« Reply #3 on: December 30, 2016, 09:48:03 AM »
Same here- I'm feeling quite bad at the moment  :hug:

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Re: Aloneness
« Reply #4 on: December 30, 2016, 11:58:11 PM »
 :hug:  :hug: :hug:
HUGS FOR EVERYBODY

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Re: Aloneness
« Reply #5 on: December 31, 2016, 01:24:03 PM »
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Re: Aloneness
« Reply #6 on: December 31, 2016, 01:33:07 PM »
We need longer arms! :hug:

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Re: Aloneness
« Reply #7 on: December 31, 2016, 01:40:37 PM »
we certainly do !!

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Re: Aloneness
« Reply #8 on: December 31, 2016, 01:46:02 PM »
One of the things i find tough is,when a loved one passes the world still goes on,yet for you it freezes in time ,thats how i am,cant seem to move in any direction :( its like when you see on tv how someone walks slowly,but all around them everyone is at fast forward..its a strange feeling

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Re: Aloneness
« Reply #9 on: December 31, 2016, 01:59:29 PM »
I know exactly what you mean- I felt like that in the very beginning but it is starting to get better (7 months for me).

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Re: Aloneness
« Reply #10 on: December 31, 2016, 02:03:12 PM »
It will be 2 yrs for me January 28th :/ im dreading it :(

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Re: Aloneness
« Reply #11 on: December 31, 2016, 08:24:50 PM »
Anniversaries do bring about the dread but I find most have not been as bad as I imagined they would be. It's things I don't anticipate that catch me unaware and drag me down.