I agree, having a job of work, must help a little I'm sure, and your right holidays are particularly lonely times too, where of course they should be fun and enjoyable times you can look back on with much fondness.
I've been away 4 times, a total of about 6 weeks since Ann passed away, feeling I need to get away for a while, but all I'm really doing is moving my loneliness and grieving from my home to a hotel room or whatever, and of course you start to think to yourself how she would be enjoying this now, but because she's not there, it's no longer enjoyable.
Well Julie you can imagine what it's like when your at home 24/7....it's pretty awful, so you do have to get out and try to do something with what's left, my only consolation is that financially I'm comfortable, so I don't have those worries, but that seems so very unimportant now, it all means NOTHING!.
You nice people take care, time for me to shower, shave and get ready...I'm out this evening.
Best wishes....Brian