This is my first post here. My husband of 36 years died on 20th August. He had been ill for 5 years and I was his sole carer. I have two children but they do not live locally. As my social life has been restricted for a long time I do not have a lot of friends. I have been dealing with the mountain of paperwork as I am the executor of his will. Fortunately I have two dogs so they keep me company. There are a few things I would like to ask.