Hubby the questions as much as anything are tick box ones, they have to fill in to get the funding,you will probably be asked them again at the end of counselling,six weeks seems like forever now but it really isnt,and the consensus seems to be that it is more effective to start that bit later.I know it feels cruel but after a while you wont hear words like "was" quite so loudly sometimes even overheard conversations hurt, i had to leave a shop once because one woman told her friend she had left hubby at home cos he is a nuisance, i know what she actually meant was -when shopping, i might even have said the same myself once in the same joking kind of way ,but everything comes with a big dose of sensativity at the moment.
I still think of myself as married still wear my rings still say mrs, still have married status on fb i dont expect that will ever change.