:hug:sending you a warm welcome. Guilt is something we all find a way to feel its part of grief that all of us here will recognise.You did your best for your sister, you didnt just shove her in a home and adandon her but visited her all the time and at the same time made sure her physical needs and comfort were being met.I dont think any of us want to imagine ever being in a home - but neither do we want to be stuck in a hospital and if its not possible to get what is needed to be able to be at home - i think the home is the better option of the ones left and i,m sure she would have too.